Tuesday, November 29, 2011

At the beginning of this month I had a boudoir shoot with Madame Boudoir. The shoot went fantastically well and I felt an instant rapport with photographer Kim Nicholls. After looking through the all images and deciding which were my favourites, today I received the final set. I'm blown away by how amazing they look.

Looking at the pictures you wouldn't think I was feeling quite unwell that day which I hope shows the dedication I have toward my work. Sometimes I may not have health on my side but I sure as heck will fight it!

I have so many favourites it's been difficult to narrow them down but I would have to say I'm drawing more toward the main image I have selected as my blog image (cosy bedroom boudoir) and the bridal image further down the page. Kim has captured the best in me and made a perfect set of images with her artistic eye and technical flare. If you're looking to get some boudoir photos done for your portfolio or as a surprise prezzie for your significant other, Kim is the woman for you.

Becky x

Monday, November 28, 2011

Being a great model takes preparation. It isn't all about sitting looking pretty for a few hours! Research, planning and practice aside, good grooming is where it's at. Without a well maintained base canvas it's very difficult to paint a pretty picture. I'm good with these analogies! :-D

Prepping your body to be the best shape for a photoshoot is something I can't stress more about. If we don't keep fit and eat relatively healthily then our skin and wellbeing isn't the best we can be, and making the most beautiful body you can be has to be every model's priority.

I was thinking about what rituals and grooming processes I always believe in and go through as I prepare for a shoot. Some are everyday mantras while others are the little touches that top the icing on the cake. Here are a few of what I consider to be the most important.

Skin
Conditioning your skin is probably of the biggest importance since your skin is the largest organ of your body. I like to use a natural bristle brush and 'dry brush' my skin, at least once a day before a shower. Starting from my legs I sweep the brush up in the direction toward my heart then brush my bottom, arms and then my belly. It's a great way to get the circulation going and it also buffs dead skin away which is great for avoiding in growing hairs. I have found this to be the best way to exfoliate.

Hair Removal
I have literally tried it all! Shaving was where it all began but since it's effect doesn't last very long I was soon looking for a long lasting method to remove my body hair. For many years I used to use epilators. They are basically home use machines that look like shavers, but operate like a series of little tweezers, pulling out hairs by the root. I long overcame the pain but ingrown hairs plagued me, despite regular exfoliation. I tried salon electrolysis but the process was too long and tedious - and the burning sensation was too much to put up with! I've now settled with waxing and my skin has vastly improved. Razors still work out cheaper but the effects of waxing is far superior. I recommend not to scrimp and save on cheaper brands as I find them ineffective, unlike the leading brand that works every time.
The secret is to find what's right for you; your pain threshold and your pocket. Trial and error never hurt anyone (hang on...?!) but it's the only way to decide what method you're most comfortable with.

Hair
My hair is officially super thick and strong. I know, Saks told me :-) It's also naturally wavy and turns frizzy at the hint of moisture. Using a shampoo that suits your hair type and condition is a must, as is using a conditioner every time. I would never bypass conditioner. I rarely use a hairdryer because I find it too harsh and overdrying so I prefer to tie it up in a bun and leave it to dry naturally. The next day if it's still damp I'll quickly blast the dryer so it's not frazzled. I also like to straighten my hair sometimes so I'll religiously use a serum to protect my hair and create a barrier. Recently I discovered a product called Argan Oil and I'm converted! It's derived from a Mediterranean nut and adds moisture where my hair needs it. I apply it when it's only towel dried so my wet hair absorbs the oil more readily. Some people may find it weighs their hair down, especially if you have fine hair that's maybe prone to become greasy quickly, but with big and wild hair like mine, it only does wonders and tames my mane.

Nails
I have never been one for long nails, never have and most likely never will be (unless you want to stick some fakes on me.) I love cute short nails as they make me feel neatly presentable. I like to use little clippers to trim my nails and I'll smooth the tips with a file. A good all rounder nail buffer is a favourite essential of mine because I can quickly move from filing to buffing. A nail oil or good hand moisturiser helps with sliding cuticles back using an orange stick. Nail polish can be drying so I try not to paint my nails unless I have a shoot on. Keeping my nails fresh and bare means they can breathe and condition naturally. Recently I stopped using acetate polish remover in favour of those small pots of polish remover wipes. They not only more efficiently remove polish and are healthier for the nail but they smell divine!

And finally... Eyebrows
Poorly maintained and overplucked eyebrows have to be my biggest bugbear - and also the most facial shape changing part of your face. Okay my eyebrows are not perfect (something a little black eyeliner won't temporarily fix!) but I've decided that what works best for me at least, is the more natural look. Looking natural doesn't mean leaving your brows to grow the size of shrubbery but it does mean trying to keep to your most natural shape. Using good tweezers - my favourites including Tweezerman and Ruby and Millie - I pluck away stray hairs that don't follow the shape of my brow. I'll tidy them up by plucking in between my brows (no mono-brow wanted here) and around the far ends but I try to stay away from above; removing hairs here can make a brow look wonky and may not sit properly above your eye socket. A good brow will emphasise your eyes and compliment your facial structure.

When I'm all washed, buffed, smooth and manicured, I'm confident in being myself which means I'm smiley, chatty and lively, and when I'm looking my best and feeling my best I know images from any shoot I do will look the best!

Becky x




Wednesday, November 16, 2011

I thought I'd do a bit of an update, maybe have a little ramble! This past week I've not felt my overall best of health so I've been concentrating on other areas to keep things ticking over in the meantime.

This week I finished my contributing role to home and lifestyle magazine, Style at Home. I was asked to be a guest on the reader panel where I was given free reign to share my comments, suggestions and tips across various sections of the magazine which would then be selected from for print. I had to review other readers homes and comment on their styling, and then there were the advice and ideas pages which gave me opportunity to shout about what I love about the current trends. I took some photos of little things I love about my own home so hopefully they will be sharing a few of my favourites, and also one or two pictures of me. I was on the panel for the new year January edition which I believe will be out in the newsagents next month, so I'm very excited!


Also today I had an exciting audition in Leeds with my other half, Sean. (You can see we love working together and do it well!) I'd applied for a pilot gameshow and was contacted just a few days ago from the production company to say that they'd love to meet us. I'd attached casual shots and some commercial shots of us together which showed us as a team which I guess they liked. We had an audition appointment with two other couples at the grand Queens Hotel in Leeds where we had to introduce our partners and then play a mock up game as we were filmed in action. I like to think our audition went well and that we showed ourselves to the best that we could but you really can never tell whether it's enough to make the mark. It was good fun but I do hope we get picked and selected to go on the show. Fingers crossed!

Becky x

Monday, November 7, 2011

This weekend I had a fantastic shoot with Kim Nicholls, the talent behind Farsely, Leeds based 'Madame Boudoir'; a fresh photography concept in helping women (and men!) love the bodies they're in.

When I came across Kim's relatively new business arm I was excited, honestly really excited. I find that boudoir is a genre that is commonly misunderstood and it frustrates me when I see images which are supposedly boudoir but look more 'glamour'. There's a different art to creating good boudoir images; setting, lighting, clothing and the right 'look' in the model. Boudoir is sexy and provocative at it's darkest but can be soft and feminine. In either instance boudoir is always empowering. Never seedy, tarty or cheap. Which is exactly what excited me about seeing the work of Madame Boudoir. I knew we were on the same level with the same thinking. We can only do amazing things together!

After many emails and discussion over what we wanted to produce, the day finally arrived. We decided to portray a range of boudoir styles including bridal boudoir where I wore a classic brides veil with a beautiful set of lingerie. I opted for an opulent ivory plunge bra worn with an underbust waist cinching corset and pretty lace briefs finished off with a sheer suspender belt and cream lace top stockings. Using a crisp white linen spread bedroom setting we took some gorgeous pictures with me on the bed, then we moved onto a wall lined with a stunning lace effect (and feel!). The images were to be clean and pure which gave me ample opportunity to show off some natural smiles. You can see some behind the scenes footage of this part of the shoot here on my Youtube channel.

Another style we worked was classically amazing lingerie in a modern but sexy style; black lace bra and thong complete with matching suspender belt all trimmed with miniature but perfectly formed pewter perfume bottles - and black seamed stockings. I darkened my lip colour for a more sultry make up look finished with some plumping juicy lip gloss. For this set we played with a backdrop of jet black strung beads then moved onto a deep berry bright velour armchair which was absolutely gorgeous! I felt we created some of the best images in that chair.

The last scene we went for was styled in a very relaxed girly look which was a little different for me to try but one I very much welcomed. The bed was gloriously decadent with beaded and satin cushions and topped with a luxuriously cosy furry throw. I devoured the feeling of all the softness in my blush pink lace bra trimmed with velvet, my cute frilly briefs and some super cute angora long socks!

This evening I made the enormously tough job of choosing my favourite images and I'm now just as excited to receive the finished pictures as much as I was the day I discovered Madame Boudoir.

x
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