Showing posts with label body confidence. Show all posts
Showing posts with label body confidence. Show all posts

Saturday, June 15, 2013

Few of us can argue that we're not that great with this body confidence thing.  The lifestyle most western women lead today compared to some decades ago are worlds apart; we work hard, play hard and birth the babies.  So why is it we're still worrying about our bodies, comparing ourselves with the next woman and making us feel pretty crap about ourselves? 

The fact is you can't escape the human nature that we base a lot of our assumptions and decisions on looks, and if we're guilty of body snarking another woman we're obviously a sinner toward ourselves.  Does this attitude get us anywhere, any further forward in our plans?  Do we actually feel all warm and fuzzy inside following a good old dig at someone else's looks?  When we stand and look at ourselves in the mirror and disappointingly pinch at our squidgy bits, does it pay it's dividends?  Not in the slightest.

The UK's swimwear favourite, Speedo, have enrolled TV and radio personality, Gabby Logan, as ambassador of their Sculpture brand to tackle the issue of negative self confidence in women by heading the 'Parade To The Pool' campaign.  In a bid to encourage more women to get that skimpy suit on and hit the pool Gabby's challenge is to shirk the 'fat talk'.  According to a recent survey, 84% of women admit they have a negative relationship with their own body, with over half (55%) of all women avoiding activities such as swimming, just because they worry about revealing their body.  Pushing self demonizing thoughts aside and stepping into a swimsuit is a liberating experience, and if you want to do it, then why not?




Top psychologist Anjula Mutanda suggests confidence building tips such as:

  • Seeing your body as part of you, not separate or your enemy
  • Focus on what bits you like rather than what you hate
  • Fake it until you make it - walk 'confidently' - stand and walk tall with shoulders back and keep eye contact
  • Don't over think - just act - throw the towel away and stride to the pool!

Some members of the public were invited to don a swimsuit and literally parade to the pool, which saw them pounding the pavement through central London with a marching band, ticker tape and full fanfare until they reached their destination: the pool.  Sadly I couldn't make it down south for the parade which I would have loved - and equally feared - to do!  So thankfully I have some photos of the lovely, brave Speedo clad women who did triumph the parade!









How do you deal with your own self confidence issues and body confidence amongst your friends and family?

Check back again soon as I'll be reviewing a new style swimsuit from the 2013 collection by Speedo Sculpture.


Becky x

Friday, June 14, 2013

This week, department store Debenhams announced it's decision to ban the airbrush: that all photographic images representing Debenham's own products would be minimally edited, no longer allowing major digital alterations of the model, in a bid to tackle the continuing trend of unrealistic imagery in the fashion industry.  With every magazine, catalogue, publication and product containing images obtained through outsourced photography libraries and by skillfully crafted in-house editors, is the banning of airbrush manipulation possible?  Can we ever tell if an image has been digitally tweaked and would we know the difference if a ban agreement was adhered to?

Debenhams Before, Corrections & After Editing

Wherever you look, an image is selling some brand or product, and whether we notice it or not every single image will have been tested through the editing process.  From McDonald's burgers to Victoria's Secret lingerie, every product photo has been scrutinised at close pixel range to create an ideal that we humans find appealing and desirable.   Whether it's oozing tomato ketchup or sun kissed skin, it's all an ideal that people - or the media - have decided are visually appealing and those selling it to us know it.  But when does digital enhancement become misrepresentation?  Do we know where the acceptable line is drawn and when it has been crossed?  Are we mis-sold when image manipulation gives us feelings of confusion, anger and upset, or are we just taking it all to heart?

McDonald's Before & After Editing

Airbrushing, or 'Photoshopping', is a procedure that most professionals in the industry are familiar with and implement all the time.  The most talented of photographers will have their images examined and retouched to ensure the aesthetics marry the feel and attitude of the image.  Detail is fine tuned, colours enhanced, distracting areas removed.  Capturing an image so specifically is crucially important to convey the right message in an advert or editorial.  If the consumer doesn't relate to an image then the product isn't sold.  If we don't believe it or are threatened by it, it can mean poor publicity.  If we don't accept it, the challenge is to change.

Image editing has it's place.  A manufacturer and retailer wants an image that shows off their product in the best light, and to do this digital tidying up is necessary.  A loose thread or fabric that has hadn't laid flat are mistakes that validate correcting.  Maybe the lighting reflected oddly on a certain area of the garment or the intricate detail along a hem wasn't picked up sufficiently on camera.  Even a model's flyaway hair or a crease on the skin from a previous pose or item of clothing, it all needs concealing so the most prominent article isn't detracted by irrelevant discrepancies.  This kind of airbrushing is acceptable because it's use is not to mislead or deceive, and because of it's subtlety, whether the image had been 'shopped' wouldn't even be a thought.  

It's the images we see that make us stop and think that there's something odd, when airbrushing takes it's unscrupulous turn.  The product isn't what's essentially caught our eye, it's the abnormally shaped torso and lack of normal bodily function that makes the model seem non human and in some cases, robotic.  When the airbrush changes the contour of a real model's figure, diminishes all natural movement in skin by deleting folds and lines, and when we start to be more aware, more conscious of what our younger generation think and how our toddlers want to look like teens, that's what makes this so real.  Airbrushing that recreates a model's figure, effectively building another model entity, is incredibly dangerous both to ourselves and our children because it means we are no longer being sold a product but being moulded into another's ideal, what we think is our ideal is warped by the altered images we flick through on a daily basis.  The dress we long for has become the tan and slender body we want too.  Advertising should never have crossed this line, from the point when we needed to question what we were seeing and whether we think it's real and right or not.  Because if we're fed and told what we want, we no longer know who's doing the thinking for us; we or them?

Victoria's Secret Before & After Editing


We're all attracted by that juicy burger, oozing it's tomato ketchup and voluptuous melting cheese and as much as we crave and desire it we know it is what it is, a burger, only made to look tastier.  What we need to make sure doesn't happen is for that tasty burger to transpire into a totally new, amazing burger with perfect edges and promises of an out of body eating experience, that alters how we think and starts making us think negatively about ourselves, but just ends up being the same old burger.  Clever, thought controlling advertising lurks around every corner.

Body confidence affects everyone and with commercial advertising heading in its current direction we do have an obligation to consider calling time on the airbrush.  If the over editing of images doesn't change, and editors don't rein in that correction pen, something's going to snap, and it won't be the model's digitally deformed torso.



Becky x
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